The Brain

I am tired of being the brains behind the operation, i think for the people around me. But i am a brain they think can be turned of or tuned out, maybe i am, but my brain my mind, the machine that operates my thoughts does not stop working, it is at present in hyperdrive, because it thinks for others but can not relive itself by performing the actions that may be needed to solve the operation my brain is demanding, so it adds to the backlog, this backlog that keep circling in thought processes, occasionallt popping up as a reminder, but you can only remind the person that needs to complete the action, and if again they block it out or refuse to take action, the cycle continues, adding the stress and slowly sending my concious into some form a disability, where my actions can not be completed, or even comprehended, cause there is simply no room to think about it. what is there left for me to do. i can't forget because then it will never be done, i can't force an action without a reaction, and i can't mentally keep going around in circles.... Is there a solution?